What’s To Come Will Always Be Better

It is very difficult for us to break away from what we hold on to. Especially in the world of relationships, thinking that what’s to come will always be better seems like an unrealistic fantasy. However, in fact, it’s the only real thing. When a situation ends by itself, when a relationship no longer holds, the world falls on us and we believe it’s all over. However, this is not the case.

It’s just a feeling we have, perhaps the result of the excessive dramatization with which we deal with relationships.

what feelings make us feel

While what is to come is always better, at the time of termination we feel that everything is falling apart and that our lives are ending. This is because our feelings are playing tricks on us.

• Feelings of despair, heartbreak, fear of not meeting someone, fear of being unable to be happy with someone else…
• Changing, leaving the comfort zone, even reluctantly, causes a lot of insecurity and, in the case of relationships, these types of emotions.

However, we must be very careful to differentiate between what we are feeling and what is best for us. Because this maelstrom of emotions can lead to what we know as intermittent relationships.

Intermittent relationships are ones in which your members are together and then break up, come back and break up again. So on. This is because the fear of a definitive end always makes them back down.

However, they always break again. Nothing goes right and the best thing they can do is abandon this relationship completely. After all, what is to come will always be better.

What happens to us allows us to grow

As painful as a process of separation is, it will enrich us as a person. We will learn from this relationship, we will meet other people and start other types of relationships that will allow us to learn even more.

If we do as in intermittent relationships and always come back with the same person, we won’t be learning anything! We will be returning to a comfort zone that gives us nothing but in which we feel safe.

Despite the insecurity that confronts us when taking that step of abandoning what we believed was safe at that moment, despite feeling that everything will change and we don’t want that to happen, what is to come will always be better.

New experiences, new opportunities… Finally, new options to continue learning, growing, maturing and getting to know each other better.

We must not force situations or cling to those that no longer bear fruit, but just rot. This is harmful to us and can make us think of the precious time we lose as we get older.

It is normal not to throw in the towel on the first change if there are expectations of growth. But if there isn’t and we keep to just for comfort, security, tranquility and not to face our fears, that towel should go to the ground right now.

What’s to come will always be better for us

What is to come will always be better, but for that we have to learn from the experiences without getting attached to them. We should not repent or victimize ourselves, but take them as something that happened and taught us to mature and grow.

Everything that happens to us helps us to be better people, as long as we want to see it that way. Our perspective on situations is always decisive.

Let’s think about all the experiences that, in your time, we believed would mean the end of our lives. Situations in which we thought we would be alone, that no one would notice us, that we would never again have a partner, that we would not know how to live without someone…

What happened now so we can see everything that happened in perspective? Those years were torture for us, but now what?

We are sure that we are proud of who we have become and that we value the experiences that were painful at the time, but that allowed us to be the people we are today. Because what comes next will always be better, believe it or not.